Everyone when they're in high school or university have desired to live alone at least once. But living by oneself is a big challenge. And someone spends their lives without living alone That depends on their choice. However, the changing the environment is a good opportunity to grow up one's self because living at home and living away from home is totally different in following points;supper, stable person welcoming home and lifestyle.
When people think about difference between above two, the first big difference is "supper" When person is living at home with family especially with a mother, he doesn't need to care about supper at all. Yet, living alone is not like this. The 3 times supper is the center of life. Thus, when person starts to live by himself with the situation there is no preparation for supper, he'll feel a big empty. It takes a time to cook and he may depend on an instant or unhealthy food or eating out. Worse, in general it costs more than he thought. But in other words, if person doesn't have such opportunity to realize the importance of person who makes a supper, he never realized forever. It seems to be easy to say in words but it could be found really by living alone.
The second difference is whether there is a person to stay at home or not. In case of living at home, someone at least one person says "welcome" However, what about living alone? If it's room share, you have a person who welcomes you but it's not always. Difference between living at home and away from is difference of people you live with. It's nothing unusual but it's a big deal. Family and friends are different even if how good and deep relationship you make with that friends. A family is special because everyone has their own families. So they're stable and always beside of you . Though living alone person has to conquer this lonlyness.
The last difference is habit. It's only in the case of room sharing. Soon after person starts to
room share, he'll force to notice the small but various differences between roommate. Everyone has their own lifestyle depend on their houses. When person lives home, he doesn't have to care as he's been raised up in a family with that house's habit. On the contrary, in case of room sharing, a tiny single difference about attitude of roommate may rub you which If you're in home you never cared. It may be a conflict and it might not easy to solve. But it's what you've experienced and conquered through living away from home. Person could learn to adjust for someone by room sharing.
In conclusion, living at home and living away from home is totally different. Living away from home makes person grow up because he loses what he has when he lives at home;every suppers, stable family and common lifestyle.
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